The Perfection Trap
Betty O'Callaghan Betty O'Callaghan

The Perfection Trap

A participant in one of our early SOAR Leadership Programmes gave us a fantastic insight as she contrasted how her sons and daughters are taught in school and how we instil values in our children:

‘We teach our boys to be tough and our girls to be good’

There is an element of perfectionism that’s socialised into girls and women from our earliest ages. This is changing. For example, it’s fantastic to see much more female sport participation – learning resilience, experiencing winning and losing, camaraderie, and teamwork as well as physical fitness.

However, …..

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Adult Mental Development - Your Infinite Potential for Growth
Betty O'Callaghan Betty O'Callaghan

Adult Mental Development - Your Infinite Potential for Growth

Today, we’re exploring the fascinating intersection of adult mental development and leadership, guided by the pioneering research of Robert Kegan. Understanding the principles of adult mental development can profoundly impact how we lead, learn, and grow in our professional lives. Adult mental development isn’t just about accumulating knowledge; it’s about transforming our understanding of ourselves and the world around us. Kegan’s research illuminates how adults progress through different stages of mental complexity, each with its own way of making sense of experiences.

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